My neighbor, friend, classmate,
then roommate

Ron Fisher - 1961
(Ronald Edward Fisher)

Adria Fisher - 1963
Class of 1964
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I lived at 118 W. Hillsdale Blvd., Apt. F, in the Hillsdale
Garden Apartments. When my stepfather was transferred from
San Francisco to Florida by the RCA Computer Division, I
moved in with Ron for a few months, so I could complete the
school year. I lived with his mother Paula (operatic singer
- boy, she sure could belt out Melisande - DeBussy, while my
mom played the piano), and stepfather Greg ????? , who was a
school teacher. I will never forget Greg's 1952 black Chevy.
Paula is instantly remembered, every time I see Bea Arthur,
her famous twin in earlier photos, as I recall. Just as
tall, too.
Over the years, I lost track of Ron, and his sister Adria
Fisher, a raven-haired beauty. The last thing I had heard,
was that Ron was attending Oregon State in 1963. And his
parents bought a house up on the hill, by Highway 92.
In March 2006, I bought a 1961 Hillsdale High "Shield"
Yearbook on eBay, since I never got one. It belonged to
Ron Fisher! How improbable is THAT, among hundreds of
students? But I'm not in it, even though I remember the
photo sitting at Bodnar's Photography. I waited 45 years,
and no photo! Bureaucratic error, I guess.
On the one hand, I was pleased that I
was the one to get Ron's Junior year annual. On the other
hand, it probably means that he is no longer with us.
The SSA death index provides the following information -
Ronald Edward Fisher
Born July 2, 1944
SS Card issued in California
Died Feb. 28, 2004, San Francisco, 94142
I wish we hadn't drifted apart, and I had known him late in
life. Ron was a great guy - really smart, and a great sense
of humor. He was well-liked by everyone. Another missed
opportunity, and lost friend.
It is possible to become comsumed with one's own directions,
problems, and inconsequential pursuits, and forget the more
important things in life.
You don't find out about this until later.
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Saturdays on the
Field
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We used to play informal pickup
football games on the HHS grass field. Tackle, with no
equipment. One Saturday, I attempted to advance the ball, by
applying my nose to Dick Bauer's knee. Arggg. I remember the
pain, but what I remember most is the expression on
everyone's face, when I rolled over, and looked up at them -
all mouths agape. I horrified them all.
Off to the hospital. Do you know how they straighten out a
broken nose? Well, there is this heavy, rounded, V-shaped
chrome tool. The big side of the V is the doctor's handle,
and the other side of the V is a rounded prong ... well, you
get the picture. The least fun I have ever had.
The doctor insisted that my mother bring down a recent
picture of my face. HUH? What was that about? If my nose was
crooked, you want to return it to that condition? Are you
crazy? Lose the freakin' picture - make it as straight as
you can! Holy Moses! My nose turned out fine.
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My Friends and
Acquaintances
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A-M
Jaime Barnard, Patty Bench, Dick Bauer, Jim Bauer,
Kris Cavalli, Lowell Cain, Chuck Cone,
Mike DeMercurio, Ron Dogey,
Pat Frederick, Jay Friedman, Patrick Fulljames,
Bob Futterer, Armand Gambera, Jeff Grant, Allan Hughes,
Dick Hanning (RIP -he punched my lights out in PE boxing
class),
Barbara Lucey, David Mackley, Jim Miller,
N-Z
Sharon Noah, Bob Nutting, Terri O'Neil, Richard Pearson,
Lou Schick, Rick Schweiger, Greg Strong,
Bob Tornai, Joan Watson, Linda Watson, Joan and John
White,
Emily Williams, Michael Young, Fred Yohe, Bob Yutzy,
etc.
And another girl whom I didn't know, whose initials were
C.J., had the most amazing ... err, sweaters, ever witnessed
by man. The "Gran Tetons" came to mind for any Frenchman.
Most male students could not speak properly, if she was
present. I was fine.
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Other
Memories
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Kibby's at 36th and El Camino -
remember? How many nights did you spend in there? The
quintessential California "Mel's Drive In".
Hambone's Pizza Parlor at the Villa Hotel? Remember old
Mace, the black blues piano player at Hambone's? I used to
love it, when he asked for "requests", and some idiot drunk
would shout out something to try and stump him. One night,
it was Rachmaninoff's Concerto in C-Sharp Minor - he screwed
around a bit for drama, feigning ignorance . . and then
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BONG . . . BONG . . . BONG he started, and flawlessly
completed the entire piece (my mom used to play it - the
most depressing tune on earth. Old Rocky was a dark dude,
and had no problem expressing that fact.)
Mace was classically trained, and highly accomplished, but
preferred the honky-tonk life style. I think he was from
Monterey, or moved there. He was never stumped, as far as I
know - and ALL committed to memory! Yowsa! His skill was my
envy.
Remember Alfred Ladendorff for American Government? Who
could forget him? Sorry, Al, but all the stuff you taught us
isn't true anymore. The 24,000 Washington lobbyists now call
all the shots (55 for each of the 435 congressman - their
sole job is to pump money to lawmakers, and EVEN write the
laws). People don't matter any more, because they no longer
have a voice. Congress is a TOTAL sellout - it's now all
about corporate cash. The future of this country looks
bleak, indeed. What do you have to say about that, Al? I did
like you, in spite of the accusations of you being "tough".
But with 100+ class sizes in the auditorium (weren't they?),
you had to be a general.
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